My Husband & I Have A Little Issue During Sex?!
Question: My Husband & I Have A Little Issue During Sex.?
my husband comes really fast..
like 2 minutes fast.
it never used to be like this. when we first started having sex i always came before he did.
at one point when i wasn't on birth control before we got married we made up a way to sorta have sex..we called them "feel ski's" that was for when we didn't have condoms.
and during this whole process it ended up like messing with his penis and ever since he comes really fast.
i've asked him if he wanted to go to the doctor about it and he says no.
i can't figure out anyway to fix it.
he doesn't want medication because he thinks it will mess with him more.
and ideas.?
thanks!Health Question & Answer
like 2 minutes fast.
it never used to be like this. when we first started having sex i always came before he did.
at one point when i wasn't on birth control before we got married we made up a way to sorta have sex..we called them "feel ski's" that was for when we didn't have condoms.
and during this whole process it ended up like messing with his penis and ever since he comes really fast.
i've asked him if he wanted to go to the doctor about it and he says no.
i can't figure out anyway to fix it.
he doesn't want medication because he thinks it will mess with him more.
and ideas.?
thanks!Health Question & Answer
Answers:
i watched this show called sex doctors once and a couple was having the same problem, two things are recommended that i can remember.
its all about control of tension. to help get him to last longer you can actually train him. in the show when the man had a erection they put weight on his penis e.g a towel and he would tense up and release (when he tenses the towel raises) this apparently helps control and makes it last longer.
the other was going from the natraul possion, not doggy or anything and being very intiment often helps you (the female) reach orgasm faster, which would help your situation.
i really hope i have helpedHealth Question & Answer
its all about control of tension. to help get him to last longer you can actually train him. in the show when the man had a erection they put weight on his penis e.g a towel and he would tense up and release (when he tenses the towel raises) this apparently helps control and makes it last longer.
the other was going from the natraul possion, not doggy or anything and being very intiment often helps you (the female) reach orgasm faster, which would help your situation.
i really hope i have helpedHealth Question & Answer
what the heck is "feel skis".?
He could when he feels it start to get to that point and pull out and go down on you for a while until he can once again start again. keep repeating that until your ready and then he can simply let it go the next time he is inside you.that is if you can handle that kinda thing. I know someone (not mentioned) who once I have completed her orally she cannot stand me touching her down there again.Health Question & Answer
He could when he feels it start to get to that point and pull out and go down on you for a while until he can once again start again. keep repeating that until your ready and then he can simply let it go the next time he is inside you.that is if you can handle that kinda thing. I know someone (not mentioned) who once I have completed her orally she cannot stand me touching her down there again.Health Question & Answer
he could use some orajel to freeze the tip/head of his penis.
the other thing is:he needs to jerk off more.
in between the days or week when you don't do it,he should do this every day or every other day.Health Question & Answer
the other thing is:he needs to jerk off more.
in between the days or week when you don't do it,he should do this every day or every other day.Health Question & Answer
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he is suffereing from premature ejaculation
try to have hime relax and have a slower sexual sessionHealth Question & Answer
try to have hime relax and have a slower sexual sessionHealth Question & Answer
there are condoms that have stuff on them that will delay the male orgasm -just read the boxesHealth Question & Answer
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what exactly is a feel ski.?Health Question & Answer
Uhh, honey, I like the way you inform the whole world about our personal problems......
Just kidding, I am not your husband.
But, here is something every guy knows. When having sex, do not think about it, or enjoy it. While having sex, name the capitals in your head, plan your weekend, see if you can remember your teachers from way back..... ALL WHILE YOU ARE HAVING SEX. If you are not distracting yourself, your wife will be really disappointed
Your husband just became selfish, and he is satisfying himself instead of you. Now, he is in the stage where it is "in and out, and I'm done--I have to work tomorrow" But try talking to him while you are in the lovemaking act, distract him, ask him questions,,,,whatever you have to do to get his mind off his own pleasure. When he is not thinking about reaching his climax, he is delaying it, but for your benefit.
But, I suggest some Karma Sutra books, or something along that line. Don't bring him to the hospital, it would only be worse.Health Question & Answer
Just kidding, I am not your husband.
But, here is something every guy knows. When having sex, do not think about it, or enjoy it. While having sex, name the capitals in your head, plan your weekend, see if you can remember your teachers from way back..... ALL WHILE YOU ARE HAVING SEX. If you are not distracting yourself, your wife will be really disappointed
Your husband just became selfish, and he is satisfying himself instead of you. Now, he is in the stage where it is "in and out, and I'm done--I have to work tomorrow" But try talking to him while you are in the lovemaking act, distract him, ask him questions,,,,whatever you have to do to get his mind off his own pleasure. When he is not thinking about reaching his climax, he is delaying it, but for your benefit.
But, I suggest some Karma Sutra books, or something along that line. Don't bring him to the hospital, it would only be worse.Health Question & Answer