Men - What's wrong with my boyfriend?!
Question: Men - What's wrong with my boyfriend.?
His penis has been in pain for over a month now. He's not circumcised and he used to be able to pull his foreskin back but whenever we try to now he literally screams in pain. The top of his penis is all red and crusty. It's cracked and dry and it bleeds sometimes. He can get the foreskin back about halfway then it's just too much for him. I just thought it was a little thing a month ago, and that it would pass, but it's been going on for so long that now I'm not sure. It's starting to affect our sex life because we tried last night and he got in but he couldn't pump. I felt really bad for him because he was trying so hard as he didn't want me to be disappointed but I told him it was fine and we just stopped. So now, we're both sexually frustrated and he's just annoyed in general and he's taking it mostly out on me. He's cranky and irritated and I don't know what to do with him anymore. He needs to get help before it gets worse because we both know it's not getting any better. What do I do now.?Health Question & Answer
Answers:
It might be an STD. Or a tear from hard sex or masturbation. Its hard to tell without seeing it. A Dr. visit should be made. If he has a tight foreskin he should soak it in a hot bath and perform stretchin over time to relax the fit. All foreskins are made tight by nature. Its natures way to ensure Glans to foreskin contact essential to climax.
Hope this helps.
By the way.. If the Doctor recommends circumcision then you went to the wrong Doctor. Find another one fast. The U.S. is full of doctors that do not have a foreskin and instantly suggest it to patients rather than correct the actual problem.
If in doubt... Ask to see a doctor that has a foreskin, or one that is against circumcision outright. It makes little sense to go to a doctor that knows nothing about foreskin care. And in the States that number is very high. Something you need to know....
The foreskin is the very best part of his penis. Its like having your lips around his glans all day long. There is nothing like it. How do I know....?
I have lived all my life with mine and its the best ever !
My cut friends are adults now and ther penis glans have all dried up and are almost useless to them. The situation is the worst kept secret in America.
Good luck to you... And him. My goal is the very correct answer.
Hope you think so too.Health Question & Answer
Hope this helps.
By the way.. If the Doctor recommends circumcision then you went to the wrong Doctor. Find another one fast. The U.S. is full of doctors that do not have a foreskin and instantly suggest it to patients rather than correct the actual problem.
If in doubt... Ask to see a doctor that has a foreskin, or one that is against circumcision outright. It makes little sense to go to a doctor that knows nothing about foreskin care. And in the States that number is very high. Something you need to know....
The foreskin is the very best part of his penis. Its like having your lips around his glans all day long. There is nothing like it. How do I know....?
I have lived all my life with mine and its the best ever !
My cut friends are adults now and ther penis glans have all dried up and are almost useless to them. The situation is the worst kept secret in America.
Good luck to you... And him. My goal is the very correct answer.
Hope you think so too.Health Question & Answer
That sucks. The only thing he can do is go to the doctor really. There really isnt much you can do. Hes gotta want to do it himself. Tell him it's his penis!!! and he's killing it!!! or try to make him jealous enough to make him go to da docsHealth Question & Answer
See a doctor as soon as possible you don't want to leave later than it already is. The first port of call when you first discovered it would be the doctor.Health Question & Answer
This has been going on for a month and not once have either of you thought about him seeing a doctor.?
Tell him to go see a doc!Health Question & Answer
Tell him to go see a doc!Health Question & Answer
im very sorry to hear this friend...plz take him to doctor as soon as possible....dont hesitate or delay...itz the matter of life more than sex....Health Question & Answer
how's his personal Hygiene is he keeping himself clean, try using some allergic soapHealth Question & Answer
Get him to a doctor. It sounds like some kind of infection.Health Question & Answer
go to the doctor. he sounds like he has a gross infection.Health Question & Answer
Go to th GUM clinic asap.Health Question & Answer
just see your doctor.....Health Question & Answer
He probably wore out his penis, either during masturbation or sex. And he might've developed a mild yeast infection or something along the way.
He needs to back off from all sexual activities until his foreskin can heal. He shouldn't pull back his foreskin at all for the next week or two, to allow the tip of the foreskin to heal up the dry cracks. When he showers, it might be a good idea not to use soap on the area as soap can dry it out more. Just warm water should do the trick in the short term. After he's done with his shower, he should dry the area gently with a clean towel. Then maybe apply so lotion (with aloe vera) to the area to help it heal and keep it moist.
Just in case it's an infection or something, he might try eating yogurt and drinking cranberry juice, as those help the body fight off yeast infections and such. The key is to just not push his body to do something (like sex) when it's trying to heal. After it's all healed up and such, his foreskin might've narrowed a little, and this could lead to mild phimosis. But that's also pretty easy to "fix." I believe you asked a separate question about phimosis, so you can look there.
If any of the above doesn't help him within 2 weeks, then he should really go to the doctor's. He might just be secretly afraid that the doctor might suggest circumcision, but circumcision is totally unnecessary in this case - so he can just get a second or third opinion.Health Question & Answer
He needs to back off from all sexual activities until his foreskin can heal. He shouldn't pull back his foreskin at all for the next week or two, to allow the tip of the foreskin to heal up the dry cracks. When he showers, it might be a good idea not to use soap on the area as soap can dry it out more. Just warm water should do the trick in the short term. After he's done with his shower, he should dry the area gently with a clean towel. Then maybe apply so lotion (with aloe vera) to the area to help it heal and keep it moist.
Just in case it's an infection or something, he might try eating yogurt and drinking cranberry juice, as those help the body fight off yeast infections and such. The key is to just not push his body to do something (like sex) when it's trying to heal. After it's all healed up and such, his foreskin might've narrowed a little, and this could lead to mild phimosis. But that's also pretty easy to "fix." I believe you asked a separate question about phimosis, so you can look there.
If any of the above doesn't help him within 2 weeks, then he should really go to the doctor's. He might just be secretly afraid that the doctor might suggest circumcision, but circumcision is totally unnecessary in this case - so he can just get a second or third opinion.Health Question & Answer
Hey i have the same problem, i got what u said cracks and its dry on the penis but its not red for me. but i do get bleeding if i **** harder. There is no problem here, 1 is ur bf must have been practicing TMs everday, tms in the sense he mite masterbar-te everday in a wrong way like rubbing the penis again a mattress or a pillow or anything rough. This happens when he doesnt use his hand to masterbate or other wiseit maybe due to heat generated ny the body. just cool him down make him chill. For best results please consult ur doctor. Jesus hope ur Bf gets all rite. Have a happy sex life.Health Question & Answer