IM 13 AND NEED HELP!?!
Question: IM 13 AND NEED HELP!.?
Ok so basically im 13 im 4'10'' and I weigh about 98 lbs. For most people this wouldnt be a problem but i've always been a gymnast and i feel like the weight is throwing me off balance!!! I've also never had great selfestime and ive never had a real boyfriend and everyone i see with a boyfriend is tall and super skinny!!! It makes me feel so fat compared with some of my friends that are the same height and a STICK!!! and kinda a combined question here how do i deal with a friend that cryes over EVERYTHING! and thinks shes better at me in everything when i taught her most of it and she thinks shes SO mature so pretty and so amazing! Its SO annoying! How do I deal with her with out making her cry!!!!.?.?.?Health Question & Answer
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alright, first of all let's calm down and take a deep breath. now for an altogether entirely too personal question - have you gone through puberty/ started your period.? if there's been a recent weight gain and you haven't, i'd say you're getting ready for either a growth spurt or puberty. if you have, it may just be how your body changed - as in the addition of breasts and hips. either way, i don't think you need to worry about losing weight as you'll probably grow a bit more. how tall are your parents.? you'll most likely be taller than your mom, but shorter than your dad.
secondly, dating at 13 really isn't the pinnacle of relationships, you know.? give yourself a chance! a boy will like you for who you are, not because you're over 5'. also, look at all those people who are dating - how long do they stay together for.? if i remember correctly, dating at 13 was usually for a couple of weeks, max! who wants to bother with that.? i say wait a while for someone you REALLY like, not just the first person to ask, and develop a meaningful relationship. trust me, in five years no one will remember who you did or didn't date at 13. scratch that, in 6 months no one is going to remember who dated who.
as for the friend, maybe she's going through something personal (like at home that you might not know about) and she's looking for compliments or reassurance that she's an okay person. you could maybe ask her if there is something else going on. or maybe she's feeling bad about her own body- just like you!- and doesn't know how to feel better about it, except by talking herself up and beating everyone around her down. i'd talk to her about it, if she cries then she cries. crying isn't the end of the world. if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore, then that is fine too. who wants a friend like that anyway.? just make sure she isn't suffering privately for something you might be able to help her work through!
good luck and i hope you feel better about everything soon!Health Question & Answer
secondly, dating at 13 really isn't the pinnacle of relationships, you know.? give yourself a chance! a boy will like you for who you are, not because you're over 5'. also, look at all those people who are dating - how long do they stay together for.? if i remember correctly, dating at 13 was usually for a couple of weeks, max! who wants to bother with that.? i say wait a while for someone you REALLY like, not just the first person to ask, and develop a meaningful relationship. trust me, in five years no one will remember who you did or didn't date at 13. scratch that, in 6 months no one is going to remember who dated who.
as for the friend, maybe she's going through something personal (like at home that you might not know about) and she's looking for compliments or reassurance that she's an okay person. you could maybe ask her if there is something else going on. or maybe she's feeling bad about her own body- just like you!- and doesn't know how to feel better about it, except by talking herself up and beating everyone around her down. i'd talk to her about it, if she cries then she cries. crying isn't the end of the world. if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore, then that is fine too. who wants a friend like that anyway.? just make sure she isn't suffering privately for something you might be able to help her work through!
good luck and i hope you feel better about everything soon!Health Question & Answer
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Slap her then continue the beat down. That'll show her.Health Question & Answer
School of course.Health Question & Answer
Just tell her when she is in a good mood =).Health Question & Answer
ok well im like turnin 13 in 7 days and i have a friend just like that but its the opposite she is way bigger than me and she talk to everyone bout thing that no one talks bout to like your coachs and ppl that r like 5 years older than her so i get on my nevers also all she talks about is boys like "omg he keeps askin me out and arggg i hat ir but i cant stop txtin him arggg' and she goes on and on so i ust tell her to grow up and start getting over herself so from wat i know if u want it to stop there is no way to do it nicelyHealth Question & Answer
You're a gymnast.?
Cool cool :)
I am too.
So, to start things off..
Being a gymnast, you're supposed to be built big.
It's muscle that makes your weight.
Because muscle weighs more than fat. So you're good there.
Don't worry about that :)
And for your friend.
Just ask her what her deal is.
And tell her that she needs to quit walking all over you.
If she takes that bad.. She'll get over it.
Just basically sounds like middle school drama.
It'll pass, soon. lol
Hope this helps you, or makes you feel better :)
Oh, and what level are you in.?
I'm fifteen, and I'm a level 9.
Just letting you know, so you know that I know what I'm talking about when I was talking about your body.
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Cool cool :)
I am too.
So, to start things off..
Being a gymnast, you're supposed to be built big.
It's muscle that makes your weight.
Because muscle weighs more than fat. So you're good there.
Don't worry about that :)
And for your friend.
Just ask her what her deal is.
And tell her that she needs to quit walking all over you.
If she takes that bad.. She'll get over it.
Just basically sounds like middle school drama.
It'll pass, soon. lol
Hope this helps you, or makes you feel better :)
Oh, and what level are you in.?
I'm fifteen, and I'm a level 9.
Just letting you know, so you know that I know what I'm talking about when I was talking about your body.
:DHealth Question & Answer
Expirence :)Health Question & Answer
First off, don't let this self-image degrade into anorexia, where you would become compulsive about your weight. I sense that you may be at risk for that. About this other girl, I have a method that I use to absorb and deflect insults and rudeness from people. Think about it this way: would you do any of the things she is doing to you.? If no, then realize that her compulsion to insult you is a sign of her own weakness. She is far weaker than you, because she needs someone to put down, the bully is always trying to hide his/her own weakness with the cover of their attacks. This mindset, instead of forcing you to believe her claims, will allow you to completely ignore her.Health Question & Answer