Should i tell my parents and fiance that i was raped in high school?!
Question: Should i tell my parents and fiance that i was raped in high school.?
Because i was raped bye my math teacher in high school.... but i never told my parents because the teacher said that if i did she was gonna come kill my family and me so i kept my mouth shut but now it is starting to surface in my head should i tell them.?.?.?(plez don't ask for details and please don't be mean i am not kidding!!!!) and this happened when i was 14 i am 24 now!!!!!Health Question & Answer
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oh jesus.
yes, you shoud tell.
dont keep it in anymore.Health Question & Answer
yes, you shoud tell.
dont keep it in anymore.Health Question & Answer
I know how you feel but i was younger...don't want to get into it though.
i wouldn't tell your parents, but maybe your fiance if you feel secure enough. Sometimes it is therapeutic to talk about things and there are counselors for that which have the added benefit of not knowing who you are, and being bound not to tell anyone. If you are fine with not telling anyone, i wouldn't personally. I think the statute of limitations is up at 20 though. maybe not. im 22 btw.Health Question & Answer
i wouldn't tell your parents, but maybe your fiance if you feel secure enough. Sometimes it is therapeutic to talk about things and there are counselors for that which have the added benefit of not knowing who you are, and being bound not to tell anyone. If you are fine with not telling anyone, i wouldn't personally. I think the statute of limitations is up at 20 though. maybe not. im 22 btw.Health Question & Answer
dont tell your parents, not worth the hurt it will casue them. they will probably balme themselves. its your call though
if your fiance coudl still look at you the same way after you tell her, go for it. but watch out, every time you two have sex the thought may come up and you probably dont want that.
wait till your married, thats just my opinion
im sorry...youll get past it eventually, and learn thinking about it is not worth your time
good luck and congratulations!!!
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if your fiance coudl still look at you the same way after you tell her, go for it. but watch out, every time you two have sex the thought may come up and you probably dont want that.
wait till your married, thats just my opinion
im sorry...youll get past it eventually, and learn thinking about it is not worth your time
good luck and congratulations!!!
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wow. way to go. you didn't tell anybody, so now he has the chance to hurt anybody he wants, the same way he hurt you! way to go genius. and by the way, if you told the police or your parents that he raped you, he would be arrested. now tell me, how would he kill you if he was in police custody.? ya, think that overHealth Question & Answer
i know what you mean. it doesn't really make a difference if you tell them or not. if you do they'll freak out and ask 50 questions or you can keep pretending nothing happened. honestly i would tell them. they may freak out but they're your family. in the end they'll be there for you.
good luck.
its yoour chocie.Health Question & Answer
good luck.
its yoour chocie.Health Question & Answer
I would share it. It isn't anything to be ashamed of, it wasn't your fault. Share it with them unless you feel the knowledge would do more harm somehow. See, I think it is a heavy burden for you, this secret. You will absolutely feel like something heavy has been lifted off you, and not so alone, if you share it. Good luck. I'm so sorry you went through this. I too have been raped.Health Question & Answer
heack yes. and if ur rents called the police and got her arrested she coudet kill ur familyHealth Question & Answer
uh u just posted it online tell them if u didn't want THE WORLD to know u shouldn't of put it on hereHealth Question & Answer