Is there something wrong with me sexually?!
Question: Is there something wrong with me sexually.?
My only pleasure is from pleasing my partner, without that, I have no interest of my own in sex.
If my partner doesn't care if I orgasm, I physically can't get aroused enough to do so.
If I masturbate, I try to get it over as quickly as possible: it's more a stress reliever than something I enjoy doing.
I wondered if I was asexual, but I am attracted to other people...Please offer any advice you can, this is really upsetting me...Health Question & Answer
If my partner doesn't care if I orgasm, I physically can't get aroused enough to do so.
If I masturbate, I try to get it over as quickly as possible: it's more a stress reliever than something I enjoy doing.
I wondered if I was asexual, but I am attracted to other people...Please offer any advice you can, this is really upsetting me...Health Question & Answer
Answers:
No, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. It just sounds like you are a caring lover, who would benefit more from a long-term relationship with someone you can enjoy pleasing and being pleasured by. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, and I don't think that it sounds like you're asexual at all. Quite the opposite - you need your partner to enjoy sex, and you need your partner to want you to enjoy it too.Health Question & Answer