Just some help and advise please?!


Question: Just some help and advise please.?
hey, im a 14 year old (almost 15). i randomly just feel like crying and cant stop. I dont like wanna kill myself but i just dont like my life an i want things to be better. At school i got mates sorta, but i feel left out of the group as they are all popular and everyone just knows me as their mate. I have been playing soccer all my life but now i cant even see the fun in that, everything is boring and i feel like a wanna talk to someone i know but im afraid they will make fun of me or call me crazy.

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I am glad you are not feeling like hurting yourself. I think it might help to find new things to be interested in. Find new friends if you do not feel like part of the group of your current friends. Being bored is a sign that you need to have new experiences. You can also talk to the guidance counselor at your school. The counselor will help you through this rough time. I hope you will feel better soon. Best Wishes.Health Question & Answer

At your age it's very difficult to talk to a friend about these kind of feelings. I would suggest you talk to your school counselor or your parents. You may want to have a few sessions with a therapist which doesn't make you crazy it makes you a responsible young adult taking care of an adult size problem. Please see one of these people they will be more than willing to help you. Oh and don't give up the soccer.Health Question & Answer

Hey Huni,
I'm so sorry your feeling this way...
It's all due to your body changing, your turning in to a man now and your body changes physically and mentally too.
It's a Natural thing that happens when your going through puberty.
Your emotions are running wild sweetie, talk to someone about it.
Get it off your chest, honestly people will not think that you are crazy.

Good luck!Health Question & Answer

My own personal experiancesHealth Question & Answer

Number one: don't waste your life worrying about what people think, if they don't like you for who you are then that's there loss not yours.
Just dress up make your self look pretty and walk around with confidence and then everyone else will be asking you for advise. Just be you..try to talk to a guy don't be shy..you have your whole life ahead of you make the best of it while you can.Health Question & Answer

talk to someone and see what comes from it. i've been thru some of that and i know its hard but believe in your self and don't ever give up no matter how hard things get. anyways maybe you can ask your parents to make an appointment with a psychiatrist to get help from them. don't wait it out or think things will get better on their own bcus they usually don't. you have to work on it and to be asking for help is a big step so good job. good luck and just keep going and be open and you'll see that things will get better.Health Question & Answer

Hi,
Sorry you feel like this :( Its your hormones changing and becoming a man, there is nothing wrong with crying. Maybe you should go and see someone at the school like a councellor. They might be able to explain what you are going through.
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No one will think that you are crazy if you go and talk to someone. Is there a counselor at the school that you go too that may be willing to listen to you. It couldn't hurt to ask for some help.Health Question & Answer



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