Why do i always seem to piss him off? mature answers please?!


Question: Why do i always seem to piss him off.? mature answers please.?
Im 25 years old and have been in a relationship with my partner for a very long time. I absolutely love him. Im a hairstylist and a dancer(hip hop mostly) & i love dancing. He is a firefighter and can be shy if he doesn't know you too well where as i will talk to anyone, but we both have a lot of friends. If we are on a night out and music is being played i will sometimes be the first on the floor dancing with my friends, then i feel like i cant stop as i enjoy it so much. My partner will just stare at me and stay in the back round with his friends,then when i go back to him he doesn't be very chatty to me and can look like he is pissed off at me.I notice the pissed off look when im dancing, so i go back to him and just hug him or try kiss him but sometimes he will just keep talking to his friends. I don't know if i am doing something wrong, am i.? please help as i hate the idea of him being mad at me!.? i know its in the wrong section i just want honest mature answers, ThanksHealth Question & Answer


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When you are at home with him, dance with him. Make him feel special by playing his favorite music fast or slow. Make sure he is in the mood and comfortable. Dancing is fun especially if you do it with your loved one and nobody else. Try to limit going out with lots of friend.A very small group is a good start. Let him feel special when going out with him. And make sure he also makes you happy by giving dancing with you a chance.Health Question & Answer

well unless you are hanging on other men while you are dancing you are doing nothing wrong. perhaps hes jelious if you are dancing with othe men and not sitting with him.?

this is really something you need to speak to him about. ask him if he is mad at you for dancing and having a little fun...perhaps like the other person said feels he cant keep up with you since he dont ddance..perhaps teach him.?

communication is truely the key here for you both.Health Question & Answer

You are doing nothing wrong at all. You are having fun and enjoying yourself. You need to talk to him and find out why it bothers him when you dance. Maybe he is envious or worried that he can't keep up with you but take the time and talk to him.Health Question & Answer

Sounds like he is just a jealous and insecure person. You are not doing anything wrong. Try to talk to him about it before you go out and find a way that you can both have fun doing what you each want to do and still have fun togetherHealth Question & Answer

Sounds like he is trying to manipulate your behavior. I would have a serious talk with him about why you doing what you do changes his behavior like that.
Does he have a jealousy problem, does he want you to pay attention to him and his friends.? Whats the deal.?
Its best to be open about things. If you are acting inappopriately then maybe you should change your behavior. On the other hand, if he feels like he needs to manipulate you by acting antisocial, talk about it.
Come to a happy medium. Its all about compromise if you are dealing with two rational caring people.Health Question & Answer



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