Is this really acceptable?!
Question: Is this really acceptable.?
I became very upset and crying, and my mum started to hit me. She says that's what you're supposed to do with hysterical people - hit them - and she says it works, but it made me fearful of her. Is this fair.? I didn't know whether I should trust her, again.Health Question & Answer
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ask your mum why she doesn't get someone to sort her own functional disturbance out first b4 judging anyone else's behavior to be unacceptable. a more rational approach is far more effective and far more common to be applied. if you look in the dictionary and read what hysterical means, unless you can identify with that word in the terms that it implies then i would suggest you not trusting your mother. maybe she has a tendency herself to be hysterical when faced with someone very emotional. sometimes people project their own response on to others in order to hide their own feelings of inadequacy. a very strong characteristic with the potential to manifest in several unfavorable ways.Health Question & Answer
No, that is actually the opposite of what you are supposed to do to someone to is very upset. She should've comforted you not hit you! You don't deserve that, I'm sorry sweetie. Are you okay.? You need to tell her how you feel, tell her that by hitting you it makes you more upset maybe she does that because she can't handle you being upset, i know my mom just tells me all of the things she doesn't like about my appearance when I'm upset and am hysterical. Mom's just don't want to see their children suffer. I could see that she doesn't want to see you upset but that was really wrong of her to hit you. I wouldn't trust her, don't tell her when your upset i would go to someone else in your life that you would trust and that would comfort you.Health Question & Answer
were you crying or hysterical -II wonder about hitting hysterical people
that is an out of control person sometimes it brings them back as some hold breath etc but if crying no ,sorry you are now fearful maybe ask her why she did it and how you feel now she is your mum and may deserve a chanceHealth Question & Answer
that is an out of control person sometimes it brings them back as some hold breath etc but if crying no ,sorry you are now fearful maybe ask her why she did it and how you feel now she is your mum and may deserve a chanceHealth Question & Answer
Uh NO. thats called child abuse.
If you were truly hysterical and couldn't be talked down, i've been there, ice water helps. a bowl of it and your hand put in it. it grounds the person.
Never is it ok to hit someone.Health Question & Answer
If you were truly hysterical and couldn't be talked down, i've been there, ice water helps. a bowl of it and your hand put in it. it grounds the person.
Never is it ok to hit someone.Health Question & Answer
it's NOT the right way to treat a person, you should to speak to another person about this issue.
Maybee the police, councill, school teachers maybee.
good luckHealth Question & Answer
Maybee the police, councill, school teachers maybee.
good luckHealth Question & Answer
A light slap on the face is an old fashioned way for stopping hysteria, although it is not used much today.. Maybe your Mum thought she was doing the right thing.Health Question & Answer
my dad does that & he says the same thing...Health Question & Answer
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Suck it up...princess.Health Question & Answer