Will he ever forgive me for hurting him so bad?!


Question: Will he ever forgive me for hurting him so bad.?
I am 25 and my husband is 28, we have been married for 4 years. I am crazy about him in every way as is he. About 2 months ago i made the biggest mistake of my life, i had a one night stand.I have been under a lot of stress lately as my dad is being released from jail & wants to be part of my life(he is very dangerous) i don't want anything to do with him and i lost a baby in September. I told my husband about it myself & he let rip at me which is understandable he also hit me across the face in a act of rage(his only time to do it) but said he never wants to lose me. I have been regretting it & kicking myself over it & am doing everything to win his trust back. He can bearly touch me anymore & wont hold my hand let alone have a proper conversation with me if is does say something to me he yells, although he still sleeps with me when he feels like it. If he cant even talk to me then why is he sleeping with me.? He is the only stable man i have in my life as my dad has been in jail since i was a child & my mother died of an overdose when i was 16, so he has always been there for me and i owe him everything, i need him. i have taking full responsibility for what i have done.

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oh my god first of all, let me say im very sorry for the situation that you are in. life everyday must be passing by so slowly. You have to understand that when you get married, you are devoting yourself to the relationship. he is your everything and so are you to him. you guys promised the world to each other and nothing should be able to tear you apart. but when you cheat, that's a different story. you cant blame him for being mad and not wanting to talk to you. he loves you and he cares. "a broken heart can either bleed or beat twice" there is really nothing you can do except apologize and prove to him that you are truly sorry. be there for him and represent yourself as the woman you were when you got married. its up to him to decide what he wants in his life and how he feels about the whole situation. please don't linger in the past. it is unhealthy and life is only lived once.Health Question & Answer

i think people can't forgive you fully until you can forgive yourself. it will takes some time. try couples counciling and don't let him have sex with you if he can't even talk to you. you don't need someone using you like that and it's not good for your own self-esteem.Health Question & Answer

he will forgive you but give him time, but then again i dont know him, i would forgive you but you must forgive yourself and the sex part doest sound healthy but i wouldnt say make your husband who you cheated on stop having sex with you but maybe after..... you might want to talk to him.Health Question & Answer

No. Stop making excuses for your life.Health Question & Answer



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