Can I be happy living a life in denial?!
Question: Can I be happy living a life in denial.?
I have some physical problems I cant accept, I just want to eat sleep and spend all day on the computer living in denial of what is wrong with me
Can I be happy doing this
I also have to get a job as I wont qualify for disability and I am running out of money and soon to be homeless
How can I maintain my lifestyle of living in denial, I absolutley can not accept what has happened to me no way no how, I had a rough childhood and was looking forward to getting my life on track and this horrible thing happenedHealth Question & Answer
Can I be happy doing this
I also have to get a job as I wont qualify for disability and I am running out of money and soon to be homeless
How can I maintain my lifestyle of living in denial, I absolutley can not accept what has happened to me no way no how, I had a rough childhood and was looking forward to getting my life on track and this horrible thing happenedHealth Question & Answer
Answers:
Hello. I am very VERY sorry to hear what you are going through. Living in denial is NEVER ok. I know from experience. As I too am enduring and have endured such pain from my past. My only advice would be to seek the help of a professional. I did and it changed my life, even though things aren't exactly where I would want them to be right now, I can honestly say that it will probably be one of the best decisions you make for yourself in your life. My psychologist is like my best friend, she has even experienced the things I had in my past and she relates very well and gives great advice, support and therapy. The therapy has set me free from the burden I was carrying on my shoulders thinking I had to do it alone. That burden was denial.
I really hope you feel better and your circumstances improve!Health Question & Answer
I really hope you feel better and your circumstances improve!Health Question & Answer
you have to accept what has happened and move forward. you can't live a life of denial and be happy, as you have said you will end up on the streets. get to a doctor they should be able to put you in touch with counselling type peopleHealth Question & Answer
It is hard to answer your question, if I do not know what horrible thing happened, to cause you to feel this way.....Health Question & Answer
There is a saying that I live by...IF God brought you to it, HE will bring you through it. so labor on with whatever it is that is bringing you down and you will get through it. sometimes when we are at our lowest is when great things are being prepared for us. Acceptance is something you will have to work on, If there is something you can do to help your self or if there are other people out there who are willing to help you then you must accept their help. and move on with you life. I know it's hard to hear that, but I believe that behind every cloud there Is a silver lining. AND A lesson to be learned, it's up to you to find out what it is you must learn. but you must NEVER give up. By asking Us the Q &A's proves to me you are not ready to give up, but are asking for help. and here it is.... God Be with you friend.Health Question & Answer
heres some tough love...
i have had a tough two yrs....family death finances surgery coping but you know what.?!.? i APPRECIATE every day i am breathing!!! bad things happen! its called life!!! the way i look at is it makes the great things that much more amazing!!!!
It sounds like your feeling sorry for yourself!!! STOP!!! people live in denial because they think they can not handle the cards they are given...having a job gives you stability in life...you love the computer.?.?.? get a computer job!!! they pay very well!!!
you sound like at this moment you are looking at the glass have empty...start looking at it half full..it might take a minute but eventually you'll look at life a totally different way!
also...if you don't qualify for disibilty, then please don't waste this life your given!!!! use it to your benefit and do something great...COMPUTERS!!!! USE IT!!!
ps: i use to be the type of person you are and i decided one day to stop feeling sorry for myself....it was when i read a book called "Today Is The Day"....no God included....don't blame anyone for your issues...they are yours to deal with...and i garantee you feel different from anyone else...
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i have had a tough two yrs....family death finances surgery coping but you know what.?!.? i APPRECIATE every day i am breathing!!! bad things happen! its called life!!! the way i look at is it makes the great things that much more amazing!!!!
It sounds like your feeling sorry for yourself!!! STOP!!! people live in denial because they think they can not handle the cards they are given...having a job gives you stability in life...you love the computer.?.?.? get a computer job!!! they pay very well!!!
you sound like at this moment you are looking at the glass have empty...start looking at it half full..it might take a minute but eventually you'll look at life a totally different way!
also...if you don't qualify for disibilty, then please don't waste this life your given!!!! use it to your benefit and do something great...COMPUTERS!!!! USE IT!!!
ps: i use to be the type of person you are and i decided one day to stop feeling sorry for myself....it was when i read a book called "Today Is The Day"....no God included....don't blame anyone for your issues...they are yours to deal with...and i garantee you feel different from anyone else...
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I feel your physical problem is causing your now mental problem. Life is tough and I can relate to that. My childhood was great, but due to panic/anxiety disorder setting in when I was 13, it ruined most of my life. (nobody really knew what was wrong back in the 60s) We all tend to want to live in denial about something we hate or dislike about ourselves, but don't see anyway to change. There are group support meetings for just about everything today. When you realize you're not alone and many others have similar feelings and problems as you, it helps you to deal with much of it. You need to get off your "pity pot" and do something to get your life back on track. Unfortunately, nobody can do it all for you. You need to WANT it and be willing to face up to certain things about you. Change what you can, and accept the things you can't. Helping others with your similar problem can untimately help you. Other people can help give you the tools necessary to pick yourself up and get on with life but you need to take those tools. Find a support group and just maybe you'll begin to get yourself on the right track. Our life on this earth is a drop in the bucket of time. Don't waste anymore of your life just isolating and frittering it away. Becoming homeless will not make you happy! Good Luck..Health Question & Answer