Sex Help, serious. Is something wrong?!
Question: Sex Help, serious. Is something wrong.?
I am having trouble getting an erection when my girlfriend and I try and have sex. We've done it before and once i get up, I'm good to go. But it takes a while for me to get up. She will give me oral sex till I have an erection, but many times once it gets me up, when we start, i will only last a little while because of the oral. It's not her. She is beautiful and she turns me on. how can i get up quicker.? Anything.?Health Question & Answer
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OK-things that cause "deflation" - anxiety, alcohol, drugs, other things on your mind (sex is 90% mental), injury . You're not climaxing when she gives you "head" are you.? Because then, yes, you are done. Try this- the next time- it isn't about you. Make sure you are somewhere that you feel safe, secure and alone.(some guys can't do the "in the car" thing-for fear of getting caught) One glass of wine is OK-not more, no distractions, plenty of massage oil, KY, baby oil or whatever it takes, oh, yeah-condom. This all about her. Rub her back, stroke her legs, kiss her neck, suck her nipples, finger "f" her, know where her clitoris is and what to do to it. Tell her to talk to you-tell you what she wants(she may not even know) -Figure it out! By the time she is over the top, if you are not hard-then make an Dr.appointment the next day. something is wrong.Health Question & Answer
stress! do you feel stress or are you under a lot of stress. just relax and pretend that for those 10-12 minutes you have no worries in the world, it just you and your girl. your welcomed.Health Question & Answer
In the words of Fez to Kelso...."YOU ARE NOT A MAN!"
but serioulsey, this might happen because of some "illness" or because she REALLY isn't the one for you.Health Question & Answer
but serioulsey, this might happen because of some "illness" or because she REALLY isn't the one for you.Health Question & Answer
Try more foreplay. This will give her more satisfaction and should give you more time to get aroused. Health Question & Answer
I'm no doctor but i've heard things about this. The reasons maybe because:
1. of your eating habits
2. mayb a change of environment
I hope this helps
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1. of your eating habits
2. mayb a change of environment
I hope this helps
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Foreplay works magic, try just making out for 10-15 minutes before the deed. It will work magic for the both of youHealth Question & Answer