Moving in with my girlfriend?!
Question: Moving in with my girlfriend.?
Ive been with my girlfriend for 2 years and now she says she wants to move in with me. I straight up said no, then she started crying and has been crying everytime she sees me saying that she wants a little more comittment. im scared i will crack because i hate to see her cry, and i wouldnt want to lose her just because i dont want her moving in with me. The one good thing i see if we moved in is that i would get to see first hand what she is like( i think i might want to marry her) what do you guys think.?Health Question & Answer
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If you think you "might want to marry her" then why not give living together a try. See who she really is. But let me tell you, that was extremely b!tchy of you "straight up" saying no. At least tell her that you want to wait a little longer. Let things go with the flow. If you loved her, you'd let her in with you. Thats if u really want to "marry" her.Health Question & Answer
Why don't you want to move in with her.? You don't explain your reasons for not wanting it.
She shouldn't pressure you into it, so you two need to have a frank discussion about it. And you tell her why you're not ready to move in with her, but say if the relationship continues you would be happy to commit to that in the future. Tell her your reasons, if she doesn't listen, then you might not want to be with somebody selfish. And promise to revisit the issue at a later date, and do so. You are right, moving in with her means you can learn a lot about her, and if you're considering marriage, I recommend it before you do so. But after only 2 years of dating, there should definitely be no hurry.
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She shouldn't pressure you into it, so you two need to have a frank discussion about it. And you tell her why you're not ready to move in with her, but say if the relationship continues you would be happy to commit to that in the future. Tell her your reasons, if she doesn't listen, then you might not want to be with somebody selfish. And promise to revisit the issue at a later date, and do so. You are right, moving in with her means you can learn a lot about her, and if you're considering marriage, I recommend it before you do so. But after only 2 years of dating, there should definitely be no hurry.
HarrietHealth Question & Answer
if you are not ready for that type of commitment, put the breaks on, if you move in, you might as well marry, you will see control big time. don;t rush into something you will be sorry for later.. Its that old if you love me, you would move in with me..Health Question & Answer
well if you're wanting to possible marry her, wouldnt you want to see what she's like before then.
if you strongly do not want to move in with her, just tell her that you're not ready for it im sure she will understand soon enough and stop crying
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if you strongly do not want to move in with her, just tell her that you're not ready for it im sure she will understand soon enough and stop crying
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I would say move in with her. If you want, try to convince her to still stay somewhat separate, (Separate beds, etc.) to see how you like living with her and let it progress. I'm sure she'd understand that you'd want to take the move in slowly.Health Question & Answer
Will your mother let her move in and if she does will she be staying in your room or your sister's.?Health Question & Answer
Dating someone and Living with them are two different things... if your not to sure about it then i would say take some more time until your ready.Health Question & Answer